The Bible condemns the act of intimacy before marriage while encouraging abstinence. It is important to understand that there is a significant degree of mutual dependence between these two terms. The Bible is very clear that there should be no sexual relations before marriage. There are no exceptions anywhere in the Bible, and therefore, even if a man and a woman are engaged to be married, it is a sin for them to have premarital sex.
The Bible gives no subsidy nor is there any tolerance for any sex at any time before your marriage. If he does not, the wrath of God will fall on both of them and no one will be exempt from guilt if there is sexual intercourse before a couple is legally united before God in a legal marriage. That is God's intention and it is one of the most serious sins that exist when even a committed partner has sexual relations before marriage. God tells us in the Bible that sexual immorality is any sexual activity that occurs outside of marriage.
Using sound biblical principles, he helps you and your spouse to develop your friendship, to be supportive partners in good times and in bad times, and to develop a healthy and satisfying sex life. Perhaps the best book in the Bible about the joys of sex is the Song of Songs, as it reminds us that sex is strictly for marriage. With a Hollywood background as an actress by training, Wendy Speake works with women as a Bible teacher by applying the power of theater, poetry and comedy to the study of the Scriptures and to the application of biblical truths in real life. Thompson (MDiv, Beeson Divinity School) is the senior pastor of the Community Bible Church, a growing church with several sites and four locations in western Arkansas.